“You are not stuck where you are unless you decide to be” – Wayne W. Dyer
“Storms make trees take deeper roots” – Dolly Parton
“Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together” – Marilyn Monroe
“It’s not the size of the dog in the fight, it’s the size of the fight in the dog.” – Mark Twain
“We have emotions but we can’t let emotions have us” – T.D. Jakes

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A Broken System: Fighting To Be A Dad

The uphill challenge for father’s rights in the court system

We have a problem in the arena of divorce and custody. We have a system that is not impartial and often serves as a breeding ground for disingenuous and unethical actions committed by players in the legal arena and sometimes (knowingly and unknowingly) enabled by the very courts people believe will determine fact from fiction. Many fathers have an uphill challenge awaiting them as they seek what many others before the law and courts seek … fairness and the right to be heard.… Read the rest


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A Broken Court System: What are You Prepared to do?

Follow the money and the court motions…

Ignorance is bliss in some scenarios, and as a father having been involved in a contentious divorce and custody ordeal it was a luxury I found myself longing for at times. Facing a situation where one’s back is against the wall, inside a court environment that is overtly hostile towards those who represent themselves as a pro se litigant, is a place parents should venture with extreme caution. In my situation it came to a point where in keeping up with my own case at times I began to become curious and observe what I knew to be odd behavior and activity within the court and its players.… Read the rest


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Child Support Calculator

How is child support calculated?

After the judge or support magistrate determines the income of both parents and makes the deductions allowable by law, (FICA, alimony, other specific expenses), the incomes are added together to get the “combined parental income”. Next, the judge or support magistrate selects a percentage based upon how many children in the household need to be supported. The combined parental income is multiplied by this percentage, and the amount is divided between the parents according to their incomes. The combined parental income level is set differently in every state, and levels are subject to change with time.… Read the rest


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Child Support Guidelines

Child support guidelines exist under state laws, which vary by state, to require the non-custodial parent, under normal circumstances, to pay child support based on a percentage of net or gross income. Child support guidelines are based on income, not expenses. The percentage of support is calculated based on the total number of children for which a parent has an obligation to support. Some state guidelines provide an adjustment for work-related child care costs.

Child support guidelines are founded on the premise that children should continue to receive the same level of support that would have been available to them had the family unit remained intact.… Read the rest


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Child Support

Child support is a parent’s legal obligation to contribute to the financial care and costs of raising his or her child. Usually support is provided until the child reaches the age of majority, or child’s emancipation before reaching majority or the child’s completion of secondary education. This obligation is enforceable both civilly and criminally.

In the context of custody or divorce action it refers to the money legally owed by one parent to the other for the expenses incurred for children of the marriage. In such cases, child support is determined as part of the divorce settlement along with other issues such as alimony, custody and visitation.… Read the rest


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Split Custody

There are two kinds of custody: legal custody and physical custody. Split custody describes when siblings are separated, with one parent having one or more children and the other parent having custody of the other children. Custody battles most often arise in a divorce or separation, requiring a court’s determination of which parent, relative or other adult should have physical and/or legal control and responsibility for a minor (child) under 18. When both parents share custody of a child after a divorce it is called joint custody. Joint custody may be either legal or physical custody.… Read the rest


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Primary Custody

Primary custody refers to the parent with whom a child lives after both parents separate or divorce. It is also referred to as physical custody. Primary custody is awarded based upon a number of factors and doesn’t necessarily denote the fitness of the parent. The primary residential parent generally has final decision-making authority in day-to-day care and control of each child. Primary custody is governed by state statutes, which vary by state.

The following is an example of one state’s definition of primary custody:

“A parent has primary physical custody (or primary custody) of children for purposes of this rule if the children reside with the other parent for a period specified in the custody order of less than 30 percent of the year.”

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Sole Custody

There are two kinds of custody: legal custody and physical custody. Custody battles most often arise in a divorce or separation, requiring a court’s determination of which parent, relative or other adult should have physical and/or legal control and responsibility for a minor (child) under 18. When both parents share custody of a child after a divorce it is called joint custody. Sole custody is both legal and physical custody by one parent. Physical custody, designates where the child will actually live, whereas legal custody gives the custodial person(s) the right to make decisions for the child’s welfare.… Read the rest


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Shared Custody

When both parents share custody of a child after a divorce it is called joint custody. Joint custody may be either legal or physical custody. Physical custody,  designates where the child will actually live, whereas legal custody gives the custodial person(s) the right to make decisions for the child’s welfare. Child custody can be decided by a local court in a divorce or if a child, relative, close friend or state agency questions whether one or both parents is unfit, absent, dead, in prison or dangerous to the child’s well-being. In such cases custody can be awarded to a grandparent or other relative, a foster parent or an orphanage or other organization or institution.… Read the rest


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Partial Custody

Partial custody indicates one parent has lesser time with the child than the custodial parent. In Pennsylvania, 23 Pa.C.S. § 5302 defines partial custody as “The right to take possession of a child away from the custodial parent for a certain period of time” Generally while making an order for partial custody, the court shall consider the following:

  • The preference of the child as well as any other factors which legitimately impacts the child’s physical, intellectual and emotional well-being.
  • Which parent is more likely to encourage, permit and allow frequent and continuing contact and physical access between the noncustodial parent and the child.
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